Jewelry: Borrowing jewelry can not only fulfill your “something borrowed” quota, but it is also a great way to save some cash! Chances are other friends and family members bought new jewelry for their wedding day and then did not find too many occasions to wear it after the wedding. Go through your pictures from past weddings and when you find something you think would suit you, call in a favor!
Showing posts with label wedding traditions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wedding traditions. Show all posts
Thursday, November 22, 2012
Something Borrowed: Jewelry
According to The Knot the tradition of something borrowed comes from an old English rhyme: “Something Olde, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue, and a Sixpence in your Shoe.” Specifically, carrying something borrowed represents borrowing the happiness of others as you start your married life together. Here is a “something borrowed” idea:

Jewelry: Borrowing jewelry can not only fulfill your “something borrowed” quota, but it is also a great way to save some cash! Chances are other friends and family members bought new jewelry for their wedding day and then did not find too many occasions to wear it after the wedding. Go through your pictures from past weddings and when you find something you think would suit you, call in a favor!
Jewelry: Borrowing jewelry can not only fulfill your “something borrowed” quota, but it is also a great way to save some cash! Chances are other friends and family members bought new jewelry for their wedding day and then did not find too many occasions to wear it after the wedding. Go through your pictures from past weddings and when you find something you think would suit you, call in a favor!
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
Generation to Generation
My mother-in-law passed this article onto me and I just love the ideas behind it. I feel like you could look at it two ways.
1) If you have one available you could wear a family heirloom dress. We've actually had a few brides in our shop recently doing the same thing- wearing a family wedding dress for their ceremony and then wearing their own wedding dress for the reception. How fabulous would it be to wear the same wedding dress that your mom, aunt, grandmother and great grandmother wore on their wedding days?! What history! And you would still get to express your personality with a reception dress.
2) You could be the first generation to make a family heirloom. If you choose a wedding gown you love, that is good quality fabric (silks, wools, no polyester) and construction and ensure you get it cleaned and preserved after your wedding your gown could be the first gown that generations to come will wear on their wedding day! Although you don't know if future generations will want to wear your dress, it would be nice to have everything prepared just in case.
So what do you think? Which one would you do?
1) If you have one available you could wear a family heirloom dress. We've actually had a few brides in our shop recently doing the same thing- wearing a family wedding dress for their ceremony and then wearing their own wedding dress for the reception. How fabulous would it be to wear the same wedding dress that your mom, aunt, grandmother and great grandmother wore on their wedding days?! What history! And you would still get to express your personality with a reception dress.
2) You could be the first generation to make a family heirloom. If you choose a wedding gown you love, that is good quality fabric (silks, wools, no polyester) and construction and ensure you get it cleaned and preserved after your wedding your gown could be the first gown that generations to come will wear on their wedding day! Although you don't know if future generations will want to wear your dress, it would be nice to have everything prepared just in case.
So what do you think? Which one would you do?
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Tuesday, October 26, 2010
2nd Anniversary Idea
I know, I know I’m on this anniversary idea kick lately, but just think it will help many of you in the coming years! But I promise I will take a hiatus from anniversaries and start focusing on weddings after this post; this idea was just too cool not to share!
Many people may not know that the traditional second anniversary gift is cotton. This gift stumped me and I have to say my husband did not get something made of cotton on our anniversary; but hey you win some, you lose some. However, if I had found this super cool Brooklyn based quilt maker, Haptic Lab, sooner I might have been able to get him an appropriate gift. Haptic Lab makes “one-of-a-kind custom Soft-Maps that can be commissioned for any place on earth, at any scale: the small town you grew up in, the city or country you're lonely for, or the college campus where you met your mate. These functional art pieces make unforgettable wedding and anniversary gifts and are heirlooms meant to last for generations. Each custom quilt is crafted entirely by hand in Brooklyn and takes 200+ hours to complete. Lead times for custom orders run between six and twelve weeks.”
Wouldn’t it be amazing to order a quilt based on where you were married or where you went on your honeymoon? And with the contrasting stitching and interesting details it certainly does not look like something your grandma would have made. These beauties are a bit pricey so start saving now even if you’re not engaged!
Many people may not know that the traditional second anniversary gift is cotton. This gift stumped me and I have to say my husband did not get something made of cotton on our anniversary; but hey you win some, you lose some. However, if I had found this super cool Brooklyn based quilt maker, Haptic Lab, sooner I might have been able to get him an appropriate gift. Haptic Lab makes “one-of-a-kind custom Soft-Maps that can be commissioned for any place on earth, at any scale: the small town you grew up in, the city or country you're lonely for, or the college campus where you met your mate. These functional art pieces make unforgettable wedding and anniversary gifts and are heirlooms meant to last for generations. Each custom quilt is crafted entirely by hand in Brooklyn and takes 200+ hours to complete. Lead times for custom orders run between six and twelve weeks.”
Wouldn’t it be amazing to order a quilt based on where you were married or where you went on your honeymoon? And with the contrasting stitching and interesting details it certainly does not look like something your grandma would have made. These beauties are a bit pricey so start saving now even if you’re not engaged!
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Monday, October 25, 2010
Anniversary Photos
Think about this, after your wedding but before kids there is a lull of taking professional photos, but why? Wouldn’t it be nice to continue chronicling your life year after year to see how things change and to show your kids and grandkids one day?! I think so, which is why I implemented a new tradition for my husband and I: we will be taking professional photos once a year no matter what is going on in our lives. Eventually, when we start having kids these photos will turn into our yearly family photo but until that day I will call these professional photo shoots, “anniversary photos.”
With this mindset, I ask Jennie from JenniferAnne Photography (the genius behind all our website photos!) to take our yearly anniversary photos and I am obsessed with the outcome! I LOVE them all! I’m going to choose a few to put on my photo wall and the rest will go into my ever growing photo album. Below are my some of my favorites, click on the link below to see them all! Thanks again Jennie!
http://jenniferannephotography.zenfolio.com/p1022990774/slideshow
PS- An "anniversary shoot" would also work great as a first anniversary gift since prints are made of paper!
With this mindset, I ask Jennie from JenniferAnne Photography (the genius behind all our website photos!) to take our yearly anniversary photos and I am obsessed with the outcome! I LOVE them all! I’m going to choose a few to put on my photo wall and the rest will go into my ever growing photo album. Below are my some of my favorites, click on the link below to see them all! Thanks again Jennie!
http://jenniferannephotography.zenfolio.com/p1022990774/slideshow
PS- An "anniversary shoot" would also work great as a first anniversary gift since prints are made of paper!
Saturday, September 11, 2010
Something Blue: Shoes
Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue and a six pence in her shoe. Almost all brides have heard this old Victorian good luck wedding custom and most brides try to incorporate it into their wedding day. There are a lot of ideas floating around as to why blue was integrated into this rhyme but I like the thought, that in ancient times the color blue was a sign of faithfulness and loyalty; two traits I believe a bride wants to exude on her wedding day. Here is an idea on how to incorporate this lucky color in your wedding:

Shoes: More and more brides are starting to opt for shoes that do not match the color of their dress, so why not go for blue. With each step you take down the aisle, this lucky color will peek out from beneath your gown!
Saturday, September 4, 2010
Something Blue: Nail Polish
Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue and a six pence in her shoe. Almost all brides have heard this old Victorian good luck wedding custom and most brides try to incorporate it into their wedding day. There are a lot of ideas floating around as to why blue was integrated into this rhyme but I like the thought, that in ancient times the color blue was a sign of faithfulness and loyalty; two traits I believe a bride wants to exude on her wedding day. Here is an idea on how to incorporate this lucky color in your wedding:
Nail Polish: Nail polish, whether on fingernails or toenails is a great subtle way to incorporate the color blue. Add to that blue manicures and pedicures are proving to be quite trendy as of late, making you a lucky and stylish bride. Amp up the blue by asking your bridesmaids to follow suit.
Nail Polish: Nail polish, whether on fingernails or toenails is a great subtle way to incorporate the color blue. Add to that blue manicures and pedicures are proving to be quite trendy as of late, making you a lucky and stylish bride. Amp up the blue by asking your bridesmaids to follow suit.Thursday, September 2, 2010
Something Old: Purse
According to The Knot the tradition of carrying something old comes from an old English rhyme: “Something Olde, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue, and a Sixpence in your Shoe.” Specifically, carrying something old represents a bridge between the past and the future. Here is a “something old” idea:

Purse: When my sister got married she carried a beautiful beaded purse that belonged to her best friend's grandmother. It was beautiful and truly exemplified the phrase “they don’t make them like they used to”

Purse: When my sister got married she carried a beautiful beaded purse that belonged to her best friend's grandmother. It was beautiful and truly exemplified the phrase “they don’t make them like they used to”
Saturday, August 28, 2010
Wedding Flowers: What's in a Name?
A rose by any other name would smell as sweet…so the saying goes, but would it have the same meaning? There are a lot of variables to consider when choosing your wedding flowers: type of flower, color, cost, wiltability…among all of the other factors that will go into choosing your wedding flowers you might also want to consider the meaning behind the flowers. Here are some options with wedding-apt meanings:
Camellia (Red) - You're a Flame in My Heart
Daisy - Loyal Love

Forget-me-not - True Love

Heather (White) - Wishes Will Come True
Ivy - Wedded Love, Fidelity

Jonquil - Love Me
Lily (Yellow) - I'm Walking on Air
Lilly of the Valley - You've Made My Life Complete
Orchid - Love
Peony - Happy Marriage

Primrose - I Can't Live Without You
Rose (Pink) - Perfect Happiness
Rose (Red) - I Love You

Stephanotis - Happiness in Marriage
Tulip (Red) - Declaration of Love
Violet (Blue) - Faithfulness, I'll Always Be True

Zinnia (Scarlet) - Constancy
Camellia (Red) - You're a Flame in My Heart
Daisy - Loyal Love
Forget-me-not - True Love
Heather (White) - Wishes Will Come True
Ivy - Wedded Love, Fidelity
Jonquil - Love Me
Lily (Yellow) - I'm Walking on Air
Lilly of the Valley - You've Made My Life Complete
Orchid - Love
Peony - Happy Marriage
Primrose - I Can't Live Without You
Rose (Pink) - Perfect Happiness
Rose (Red) - I Love You
Stephanotis - Happiness in Marriage
Tulip (Red) - Declaration of Love
Violet (Blue) - Faithfulness, I'll Always Be True
Zinnia (Scarlet) - Constancy
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Something Blue: Bouquet
Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue and a six pence in her shoe. Almost all brides have heard this old Victorian good luck wedding custom and most brides try to incorporate it into their wedding day. There are a lot of ideas floating around as to why blue was integrated into this rhyme but I like the thought, that in ancient times the color blue was a sign of faithfulness and loyalty; two traits I believe a bride wants to exude on her wedding day. Here is an idea on how to incorporate this lucky color in your wedding:
Bouquet: Some of my favorite flowers for wedding bouquets (and in general) are hydrangeas, especially when they're blue! Granted as this touch of blue is a little more front and center you'll want to make sure that it complements the rest of your color palette. To add even more blue as your florist to wrap a blue ribbon around the stem of your bouquet.
Bouquet: Some of my favorite flowers for wedding bouquets (and in general) are hydrangeas, especially when they're blue! Granted as this touch of blue is a little more front and center you'll want to make sure that it complements the rest of your color palette. To add even more blue as your florist to wrap a blue ribbon around the stem of your bouquet.
Saturday, August 14, 2010
Something Old: Handkercheif
According to The Knot the tradition of carrying something old comes from an old English rhyme: “Something Olde, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue, and a Sixpence in your Shoe.” Specifically, carrying something old represents a bridge between the past and the future. Here is a “something old” idea:

Handkerchief: Vintage handkerchiefs can be found in most any antique shop – but if you plan to use it to dab tears during the ceremony just make sure that it’s not too flimsy! If possible try to find one with initials embroidered. Where they the initials of the owner carefully stitched in colored thread, or perhaps the initials of the man who gave the handkerchief to his sweetheart.
Handkerchief: Vintage handkerchiefs can be found in most any antique shop – but if you plan to use it to dab tears during the ceremony just make sure that it’s not too flimsy! If possible try to find one with initials embroidered. Where they the initials of the owner carefully stitched in colored thread, or perhaps the initials of the man who gave the handkerchief to his sweetheart.
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Something Borrowed: The Dress

According to The Knot the tradition of something borrowed comes from an old English rhyme: “Something Olde, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue, and a Sixpence in your Shoe.” Specifically, carrying something borrowed represents borrowing the happiness of others as you start your married life together. Here is a “something borrowed” idea:
Dress: Borrowing the dress of your mother/grandmother/aunt could serve double duty as your something old and your something borrowed. If the fit or style of their dresses are not to your taste you might also like to consider borrowing the dress of a sister, cousin or friend.
Thursday, August 5, 2010
Something Blue: Petticoat
Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue and a six pence in her shoe. Almost all brides have heard this old Victorian good luck wedding custom and most brides try to incorporate it into their wedding day. There are a lot of ideas floating around as to why blue was integrated into this rhyme but I like the thought, that in ancient times the color blue was a sign of faithfulness and loyalty; two traits I believe a bride wants to exude on her wedding day. Here is an idea on how to incorporate this lucky color in your wedding:
Petticoat: The word petticoat never fails to make me think of the red petticoat Rhett buys for Mammy in Gone with the Wind. Take a page out of Mammy's book by wearing a blue petticoat under your dress as opposed to the traditional white. With each rustling step you take down the aisle, only you will know that it is made by a petticoat in the lucky color blue.
Petticoat: The word petticoat never fails to make me think of the red petticoat Rhett buys for Mammy in Gone with the Wind. Take a page out of Mammy's book by wearing a blue petticoat under your dress as opposed to the traditional white. With each rustling step you take down the aisle, only you will know that it is made by a petticoat in the lucky color blue.Thursday, July 29, 2010
Wedding Theme Thursday: Vintage Wedding
If you've ever felt that you were born a few decades, or centuries, too early, a vintage wedding could be for you. The good news: you can pull off a vintage themed wedding without making your guests feel like they have been transported back in time (AKA no period costumes etc.). Here are some vintage touches that you can incorporate into your big day to give it that old Hollywood-type glamour.Vintage rings: For the gal who loves vintage an antique-style engagement ring will be the perfect choice. Even if one's fiance does not have a family heirloom passed down for generations, replicas are readily available. You might even consider skipping the traditional diamond in favor a colored gemstone (interesting fact: diamonds became the norm for engagement rings in the 1950's when diamond miner De Beers launched the "Diamonds are forever" marketing campaign - prior to this diamonds were considered more commonplace and where not especially valued). Of course if you are after a vintage engagement ring it would help to plant the idea before wedding plans officially commence!

Wedding Dress: something along the lines of this Audrey Hepburn-style dress, or a simple and elegant white suit would be a perfect fit. To get started looking for a tea-length dress, read the post Tea Time.
Music: Strike up the band! Along with the regular wedding play list, mix in a liberal dose of Bing Crosby, Louis Armstrong, Frank Sinatra, and Dorris Day.
Decorations: Incorporate framed photos of your ancestors wedding days. You could set up a display by the guest book. Be sure to indicate who the people pictured are.
Flowers: A simple bouquet of spray roses is the perfect shabby-chic bouquet for your vintage wedding.Saturday, July 24, 2010
Bridal Trousseau
A former colleague of mine gave me an article from a past issue issue of Vanity Fair that discussed the come back of the bridal trousseau. Below is a snippet of the article:
“Though the bridal dowry is now a long-since-retired custom, D. Porthault, the ultra-luxe French linen company, is bringing back another relic of an earlier era--the trousseau. The company has partnered with luggage-maker Schedoni to create a trunk stocked with everything a newly married girl might need.”
According to About.com, the word trousseau is derived from the French term trousse meaning bundle. In Victorian times, a bridal trousseau would have included all of the possessions a girl would need to begin her marriage: bridal ensemble, jewelry, lingerie, bed linens and other household items. This bundle of goods would then be packed into a trunk or hope chest and sent off with the bride-to-be. This article made me think of all the items I would have included in my own bridal trousseau. I don't know that everything would fit into a standard trunk, so I’ll just have my husband carry the remainder. :)
~Rebecca
Tea set, Anthropologie; wine glass, Anthropologie; sheets, Anthropologie; white bud vase, Crate and Barrel; wedding dress, Elizabeth Dye; luggage, Jcrew; glasses, Anthropologie; glass containers, Crate and Barrel; bracelets, Jcrew; books; bud vase, Crate and Barrel; chair, Macy's; mirror, Anthropologie; dessert plates, Crate and Barrel; lingerie, Victoria's Secret; shoe, Nina; vase, Crate and Barrel; pillows, World Market; duvet, Pottery Barn
“Though the bridal dowry is now a long-since-retired custom, D. Porthault, the ultra-luxe French linen company, is bringing back another relic of an earlier era--the trousseau. The company has partnered with luggage-maker Schedoni to create a trunk stocked with everything a newly married girl might need.”
According to About.com, the word trousseau is derived from the French term trousse meaning bundle. In Victorian times, a bridal trousseau would have included all of the possessions a girl would need to begin her marriage: bridal ensemble, jewelry, lingerie, bed linens and other household items. This bundle of goods would then be packed into a trunk or hope chest and sent off with the bride-to-be. This article made me think of all the items I would have included in my own bridal trousseau. I don't know that everything would fit into a standard trunk, so I’ll just have my husband carry the remainder. :)
~Rebecca
Tea set, Anthropologie; wine glass, Anthropologie; sheets, Anthropologie; white bud vase, Crate and Barrel; wedding dress, Elizabeth Dye; luggage, Jcrew; glasses, Anthropologie; glass containers, Crate and Barrel; bracelets, Jcrew; books; bud vase, Crate and Barrel; chair, Macy's; mirror, Anthropologie; dessert plates, Crate and Barrel; lingerie, Victoria's Secret; shoe, Nina; vase, Crate and Barrel; pillows, World Market; duvet, Pottery Barn
Friday, July 23, 2010
Something Borrowed: Wedding Song
According to The Knot the tradition of something borrowed comes from an old English rhyme: “Something Olde, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue, and a Sixpence in your Shoe.” Specifically, carrying something borrowed represents borrowing the happiness of others as you start your married life together. Here is a “something borrowed” idea:
Wedding Song: If you don’t have a special song and have yet to select the one that you will use for your first dance as husband and wife, ask those close to you for a loan. Dancing to the same song as your parents or grandparents can also serve as a thoughtful tribute.
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
Something Old: Jewelry
According to The Knot the tradition of carrying something old comes from an old English rhyme: “Something Olde, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue, and a Sixpence in your Shoe.” Specifically, carrying something old represents a bridge between the past and the future. Here is a “something old” idea:
Jewelry: I have a bracelet that belonged to my great-grandmother. She got it back in the 1920's from the elevator operator in her building who was smitten with her. A piece of jewelry with an interesting past, whether from someone you know or from the local consignment shop, adds a nice sense of nostalgia to your wedding day.
Monday, July 12, 2010
Something Old: The Dress
According to The Knot the tradition of carrying something old comes from an old English rhyme: “Something Olde, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue, and a Sixpence in your Shoe.” Specifically, carrying something old represents a bridge between the past and the future. Here is a “something old” idea:Dress: Wearing the wedding dress that your mom or another relative wore is a wonderful tribute to the women in your life and depending on when their wedding took place may offer a fashionable nod to the past. However, if wearing the dress "as is" is not an option, think about taking a piece of your mom's dress and incorporating it into your current dress. For example, you could take an applique of lace off your mom's dress and have your seamstress sew it to a sash for your new dress. Or take a swatch of the fabric from your mom's dress and make a flower pin for your hair. The possibilities are endless and great way to personalize your look for the day.
Friday, July 9, 2010
Wedding Advice
I saw this post the other day and it really hit home:
As brides we spend so much time planning for our weddings to ensure the day is perfect, but what about planning for our marriages to ensure those are perfect too- or as close to perfect as we can get. I think sometimes we need to take a step back and think about the person we are marrying and how to make that person happy long after the wedding cake has been eaten and all the guests have gone home. Craig Nova an author and Professor in the Humanities at the University of North Carolina, Greensboro wrote this article for his daughter on her wedding day. He describes how politeness, small gifts on a regular basis, knowing yours and your partner’s strengths and weaknesses, and keeping the magic of matrimony alive can all attribute to a healthy strong marriage. Click here to read the entire article of Dr. Nova’s Matrimonial Checklist.
As brides we spend so much time planning for our weddings to ensure the day is perfect, but what about planning for our marriages to ensure those are perfect too- or as close to perfect as we can get. I think sometimes we need to take a step back and think about the person we are marrying and how to make that person happy long after the wedding cake has been eaten and all the guests have gone home. Craig Nova an author and Professor in the Humanities at the University of North Carolina, Greensboro wrote this article for his daughter on her wedding day. He describes how politeness, small gifts on a regular basis, knowing yours and your partner’s strengths and weaknesses, and keeping the magic of matrimony alive can all attribute to a healthy strong marriage. Click here to read the entire article of Dr. Nova’s Matrimonial Checklist.
Friday, July 2, 2010
First Anniversary Gift Idea: The (Comic) Story of Us
Paper is the traditional first wedding anniversary gift, but what does that mean? For my first anniversary gift, many people told me to buy tickets to a play or concert, but there were none we wanted to see, others told me to get tickets for a destination vacation, but we didn’t want to spend the money on a vacation, so what was a girl to do? Well as I was pursuing my favorite blogs and I came across this-a personalized, hand drawn comic strip- it’s quirky and fun but it also has meaning! Mark Weber, who has done work for the New York Times and Rolling Stone, takes your story and turns it into a six panel comic; all you need to do is supply him with pictures for inspiration. And it comes on acid free paper. Perfect.

~ Rebecca


~ Rebecca
Thursday, July 1, 2010
Something Old: Relationship Mementos
According to The Knot the tradition of carrying something old comes from an old English rhyme: “Something Olde, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue, and a Sixpence in your Shoe.” Specifically, carrying something old represents a bridge between the past and the future. Here is a “something old” idea:
Paraphernalia from the beginning of your relationship: when our friend Jen got married to her high school sweetheart she put us in charge of coming up with her “something old, something new…” As we had all been friends since high school, we dug out an old school newspaper in which she and her fiancĂ© had been interviewed about their relationship. We cut it out rolled it up like a scroll and stuck it in her bouquet. The same idea can be applied to a number of things from the start of your relationship: ticket stubs, a love note, a matchbook from the first restaurant you went to, etc.
Photo courtesy of www.freedigitalphotos.net
Paraphernalia from the beginning of your relationship: when our friend Jen got married to her high school sweetheart she put us in charge of coming up with her “something old, something new…” As we had all been friends since high school, we dug out an old school newspaper in which she and her fiancĂ© had been interviewed about their relationship. We cut it out rolled it up like a scroll and stuck it in her bouquet. The same idea can be applied to a number of things from the start of your relationship: ticket stubs, a love note, a matchbook from the first restaurant you went to, etc.Photo courtesy of www.freedigitalphotos.net
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